This is something that I have been trying to drive home in my books and hundreds of articles on Grandparents’ Rights issues. I have become weary of the thousands of stories about Grandparents who don’t get to see their Grandkids often enough. These Caring Grandparents want answers as to what they can do and, please don’t shoot the messenger, but the responsibility rests on their shoulders to find a way around this mountain since there are no tunnels through it. This area is primarily devoid of fairness, but that is the way it is. Some techniques help, but the initiative and responsibility are ours. The good news is that these beautiful creatures we call Grandchildren are worth all the effort and time we invest in them.