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Being a grandparent brings immense joy and a constant search for ways to enrich the lives of my grandchildren.
In their early years, I held the cherished title of the "King of the Upside Down Hug," a playful tradition that unfortunately had to be retired as they grew taller and my back protested. Now, I aspire to be known as the "Happy Grandpa," radiating positivity and warmth.
I firmly believe that one of the most valuable gifts a grandparent can offer is the gift of modeling. Whether it's demonstrating kindness, patience, a love for learning, or a strong work ethic, grandparents have a unique opportunity to shape their grandchildren's values and behaviors through their own actions. By embodying the qualities we wish to see in our grandchildren, we provide them with a living example to emulate.
Moreover, modeling goes beyond simply showcasing positive traits. It also involves sharing our experiences, both triumphs and challenges, to impart valuable life lessons. Through storytelling and open communication, we can help our grandchildren navigate the complexities of life, offering guidance and support along the way.
As a grandparent, I strive to be a role model who inspires my grandchildren to be their best selves. By modeling happiness, empathy, resilience, and a lifelong love of learning, I hope to leave a lasting legacy that extends far beyond my years.
Let me warn you, I am one of those energetic and enthusiastic, Happiness kind of guys. I know it can be annoying, especially in tough times. In my case, it has been an infliction of mine all my life. Like Reese Cups, Not Sorry, it is just the way I roll. That is what works for me, but I don’t think it is what Happiness is all about.
In his book “HOW HAPPINESS HAPPENS”, Max Lucado (My kind of guy) teaches that “Doing good does good for the doer.” I have a small ax to grind with his title, Happiness seldom just Happens, we create it.
One of my most influential teachers is a man who made it his life’s work to add value to everyone he came in contact with. His name is EARL NIGHTINGALE. One of the things I garnered from him was a great definition of Magic. He taught that “True Magic happens when what you love to do benefits others” Ain’t that neat?
It may seem like a small thing but what would be the outcome if you find a way, each day, to add a smile to each of those beautiful Grandkid’s faces?
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