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Being the Example

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neil

Act, act, share and act some more. Being frozen in fear just plain feels bad.

As you know, our grandkids watch us closely—more so than they listen to what we say. Their eyes are always on us, taking in the subtle things we do, the choices we make, and the actions we take. It’s fascinating, really, because this gives us a unique opportunity to lead by example. If we do the right things, we not only show them how to live with integrity and intention, but we also experience the rewards of forward motion in our own lives. In moments like this, where every little step counts, the momentum we create isn't just for them; it’s for us too.

Young boy holding a magnifying glass to his eye outdoors, showing curiosity, play, and intergenerational learning in grandparenting

Now, I’m not saying everyone should take a leap of faith from the highest dive board and make a grand, dramatic swan dive into the unknown. That might make for an interesting spectacle, sure, but it’s not practical for everyone. Instead, it's about finding those moments to take bold steps, however big or small, that push us out of our comfort zones in ways that benefit us all. Even the smallest actions, when taken with purpose, can lead to profound results.

Older grandfather and young child standing together indoors, showing intergenerational family bonding, grandparenting, and care

What I suggest is to make a conscious effort every day to do something that excites you, challenges you, or helps you grow in some way—whether it’s learning a new skill, exploring a hobby, or even taking a step toward a personal goal. Then, find a way to share that experience with your family and friends, especially your grandchildren. By sharing what you’re learning and doing, you create meaningful connections and serve as a role model for them, showing them that growth is an ongoing journey. Not only do you inspire them, but you also reinforce your own progress and joy.

A great book to guide this journey is Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg. It offers practical advice on how to make small, manageable changes in your daily life that lead to lasting transformation. It’s about building habits gradually, in a way that’s sustainable and rewarding, and ultimately, it helps you create a life that’s rich with learning, growth, and connection.