The 11th Commandment of grandparenting isn’t “Thou shalt agree with the parents.” It is “Thou shalt honor the parents of your grandchildren.” You don’t have to like every choice they make—but respecting their role keeps the gate open to your grandchildren and builds true family harmony.

A simple, silly ritual like an Upside-Down Hug can create lifelong memories. Grandparents who build unique traditions give their grandkids connection, identity, and love that lasts for decades.

Grandparents Preparing Families for Dementia Dementia is a word that can stir fear, confusion, and uncertainty for many families. Yet for grandparents, understanding dementia is not only about preparing for the possibility of memory loss—it […]

Staying mentally sharp as you age is about more than preventing decline, it’s about living with purpose, curiosity, and confidence. With simple daily habits like learning new skills, staying socially connected, and nourishing your body, you can keep your mind vibrant and active at every stage of life.

With a warm smile and wisdom that comes from years of family memories, Neil reminds us why respecting and supporting our grown children as they raise the next generation is so important.

When grandparents and the mother of their grandchildren, married or separated, work together with respect and kindness, children thrive in love, stability, and family harmony.

What can an “unsupervised 11-year-old” who quit high school three times teach us about family, resilience, and grandparenting? A lot, if his name is Neil Taft.