People going through a divorce often feel that they have little or no control over their lives anymore. It seems the court system takes over their life, telling them how to live, where to live, how much money to live on and on.
Exactly what is visitation? To put it into its simplest form, visitation is when the court sets a specific schedule for a person to have access to the child. In other words in the case of grandparent’s visitation the court will order that the children be made available to the grandparent on specific day for a specified amount of time.
Unfortunately, just because a grandparent is being denied access to their grandchild does not necessarily mean they will qualify for court ordered visitation. Grandparent visitation is governed by statute and case law, and each state has their own laws.
During a divorce, communications between all the parties often breaks down. Every effort within reason should be made to have time with the grandchild before court papers are filed. Mediation is one option available before filing papers. Filing in the courts for visitation should be the last resort.
The requirements for court ordered visitation vary by state. Check out this article:
Grandparents visitation laws vary, so stay informed
As you will see, this is a complicated issue. If you are a grandparent that is being denied time, without good reason, you have a big decision to make. Try to be as informed as possible. My book No Greater Loss can help you understand the intricate legal issues surrounding grandparents visitation rights.
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