Misunderstanding of the custody rights of grandparents is common, which is why I have tried to focus on explaining those rights and expanding on them in No Greater Loss.
Though each is unique, all fifty states have laws regarding the custody rights of grandparents. Custody rights of grandparents may be applicable in cases where a parent or both parents die, or in cases of divorce or separation. Custody rights of grandparents may also apply when the child has lived with the grandparents or great grandparents for a certain period of time and other requirements are met. When a grandparent seeks custody of a grandchild, they must petition the family law court to request full or partial custody of the child or visitation rights.
There are two types of child custody: legal and physical. Legal custody determines who will make the major decisions that shape the child’s life. These major decisions can involve such things as health care, education, religion, and more. Physical custody involves who the child will live and spend their time with. In most joint custody decisions, one parent will have primary physical custody of the child and the other parent (called the non-custodial parent) will have child visitation rights.
There are cases, however, where custody rights of grandparents apply. There are some court-determined circumstances by which the custody rights of grandparents make it possible for them to request full legal and physical custody of their grandchildren. This may be possible in cases where the grandparent has already assumed a primary parenting role for at least a year, the child lacks adequate parental care from both biological parents, or if the grandparent has reasonable cause to believe that there is child abuse, neglect, substance abuse, or mental illness involved in the parent-child relationship.
For the custody rights of grandparents to be honored, grandparents must prove a few things in court. They must show that grandparent custody is in the best interest of the child, that the grandparents has a genuine concern and care for the child’s well-being, and that the grandparent-grandchild relationship started with the consent of a parent or previous court order.
Custody rights of grandparents may also be sought for partial physical custody of the child or visitation rights. Partial custody rights of grandparents allow them time spent with the child without the custodial parent’s approval or supervision. In other situations, a grandparent may be granted child visitation which allows them to spend time with the child under the supervision of the custodial parent or another appropriate adult. Child visitation rights are typically not denied to grandparents unless there is valid cause for denial.
In many cases, petitioning for the custody rights of grandparents is a complex process that is best pursued with the help of an experienced legal professional. This qualified family law expert can help you develop a strong case that highlights the reasons why grandparent custody or visitation is in the best interests of the children involved.
You can find out more about the custody rights of grandparents in my book No Greater Loss.