Being a Significant Adult

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neil

It's clear to me that the most impactful thing we can do as adults, especially those of us in influential positions, is to truly embody what it means to be a responsible and compassionate grown-up. Our children and grandchildren are far more interested in observing our actions and behaviors than simply listening to our words. They are constantly watching how we live our lives, how we express love and affection, and how we manage life's inevitable challenges – and these observations form the basis of their own learning and development.

In these uncertain and tumultuous times, I can only begin to fathom the anxieties and uncertainties that must be plaguing the minds of our youth. The world can often feel like an unstable and unpredictable place, particularly for those who are still finding their footing. But amidst this uncertainty, I am certain of one thing: I can offer them something more stable and enduring. I can replace their fear and anxiety with hope, love, and a sense of security.

As adults, we have the power to shape the world around us, not just through our words, but through our actions. We can show our children and grandchildren that even in the face of adversity, it is possible to remain hopeful and to choose love over fear. We can teach them that resilience, compassion, and empathy are not just abstract concepts, but essential tools for navigating life's challenges. By living our lives with integrity and purpose, we can inspire the next generation to do the same.

Remember, our children and grandchildren are always watching and learning from us. Let's strive to be the best role models we can be, guiding them towards a future filled with Hope and Love.

Hope and Love are powerful tools. They:

Act as a shield in turbulent times
Remind our kids of their inherent worth
Give them confidence to not just survive, but grow
Inspire them to be kind, courageous, and curious
Help them see change not only as loss but as opportunity

My method is simple, really. It’s about messages of Goodness and Grace.
It’s about affirming their own Goodness and Grace.
It’s about sharing the beauty I see and the kindness I hear with as many people as will listen.

Let me give you an example.

This past Sunday began with a Glorious morning here on the East Coast—what I like to call “The Cathedral of the Atlantic.” The sun rose, the waves sang, and the sky painted a masterpiece that reminded me (once again) how deeply surrounded we are by grace.