Just as a sculptor does not force the wood or stone into something unnatural, a wise grandparent does not try to remake a child in their own image. Instead, they focus on how they, with the parents, can work to remove fear, doubt, and pressure by offering love, patience, and perspective.

Even when our grandsons are older and developing that internal drive and determination, having their grandfather cheering them on is something every young man needs. We provide different love and motivation from what Mom and Dad provide.

Whatever your style is of being a cool grandpa, our granddaughters need us to provide support and encouragement. Based on my extensive study of grandfathers, four types of wisdom, love, and encouragement mean the world to our granddaughters.

So, in 2025, how do we grow our relationship with our grandchildren? We build it intentionally, one brick at a time, creating a solid foundation. This isn't about doing less; it's about doing things with purpose.