I will say, though, that it is always helpful to appreciate what will come of your struggle if you persevere. Keeping you eye on the prize is the very fuel necessary to achieve anything meaningful.
If you are really intent on doing your best to spend time with your Grands, I advise you to ask yourself one question, “How much do you want to pay to be right”?
One of the tenets of my Dale Carnegie training is that we should speak in terms of others’ interests. This is especially true when it comes to our beloved grands.