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November 22, 2011

IS THERE A WINNER IN PARENTS vs GRANDPARENTS RIGHTS?

Yes! & Yes! Please don’t throw tomatoes and rotten eggs at me until you read this post through.  Then you may still want to throw them but I don’t think so. I continually state that the whole purpose of my commitment to this issue is “The best interest of the children”.   That takes care of the first Yes.  To the extent that we continue to put this debate on the table I promise you the children will benefit.  I have […]
November 17, 2011

THE SUPREME COURT IS TAKING ANOTHER LOOK AT GRANDPARENTS RIGHTS

The Connecticut Grandparents visitation rights law has been challenged and the Supreme Court is going to hear the case.  This is a mixed blessing as I understand it.  The conundrum is that “IF” the supreme court allows the law to stand as it is, it will create a situation where it will  not only be Grandparent rights that are recognized and protected, but others as well are invited to participate.  The Connecticut law can be interpreted to include any third […]
November 14, 2011

WHO IS FIGHTING FOR OUR GRANDPARENTS RIGHTS?

It is comforting to all of us Grandparents to realize that there are great minds going to great lengths to progress our Grandparent’s Rights.  People like Michigan attorney Richard S. Victor have dedicated decades to the legal and legislative fight for grandparent rights.  He even formed the GRO, Grandparents Rights Organization in 1984.  Their web site is www.Grandparentsrights.org. Richard says it better than I ever could; The Grandparents Rights Organization is a national volunteer nonprofit organization founded in 1984 by […]
November 10, 2011

GRANDPARENTS RIGHTS THE SMART WAY

As grandparents we have come a long way in the quest to create an atmosphere that allows our grandchildren the maximum of love and support in the extended family structure.  The good news is that in most cases Grandparents do get to visit with and be a part of their grandkids lives without having to exert their grandparents rights, and that is mutually beneficial for everyone in the family.  In addition we are getting closer to my own guiding principal […]
November 8, 2011

BEING SMART ABOUT GRANDPARENTS RIGHTS

 
October 27, 2011

SOME OF WHY I WROTE MY BOOK; “NO GREATER LOSS”

  This article is the forward to my book, “No Greater Loss”, offered by Dr. Susanne Taft,  Psychologist Children are our legacy and the future. They need all of the resources, encouragement, and belief in their abilities that can be provided to them. Grandparents are a good source for this encouragement and can contribute greatly to their growth and development. In fact, grandparents have experience and knowledge to share that they learned in life and from decisions they made, good […]
October 25, 2011

GRANDPARENTS RIGHTS ARE NOT FOR EVERYONE IN THE FAMILY

The deeper I dig into the area of Grandparenting and the need for some form of Grandparents rights I find some statistical as well as anecdotal consistencies. I find more and more that extended families with 6-8 grandchildren will be fine with 2/3rds or 3/4ths of the grandkids but may experience trouble with effective visitation and correspondence with that smaller fraction of the family. This is a generalization, of course, but I make it to clarify a point about Grandparenting […]
October 17, 2011

Grandparents visitation rights in Kentucky

Reasonable grandparents visitation rights in Kentucky may be awarded to either paternal or maternal grandparents if the court determines that it is in the best interest of the child to do so. These visitation rights may even survive the termination of parental rights belonging to the grandparent’s son or daughter, who is the father or mother of the child, if the court decides that visitation is in the child’s best interest. A grandparent whose child is deceased and who supplies […]
October 13, 2011

Grandparents visitation rights in Virginia

In the USA there is no uniform grandparents visitation rights law. Each state has its own set of rules loosely based on a the 2000 US Supreme Court decision Troxel. In the state of Virginia, determining Virginia grandparents visitation rights is further complicated by the fact that there is no state statute dedicated to those rights. Instead Virginia addresses custody and visitation in the same set of statutes. The statutes refer to parents and to “persons of legitimate interest,” including […]