If you’re navigating tension with your adult children or feeling uncertain about where the lines are, start with these two articles:

• When the Bridge Breaks: How to Rebuild Your Relationship With Your Grandchildren’s Parents – What to do when the relationship has already fractured and how to start rebuilding it.
• Your Grandchildren’s Parents Are Your Bridge to Them – Neil’s foundational framework for understanding why the parent relationship comes first.

Setting and Respecting Boundaries

• • • The 11th Commandment: Honor the Parents – Why respecting parental authority isn’t just good strategy – it’s the right thing to do.
    • When Good Grandparents Go Wrong – The most common mistakes grandparents make, and how to avoid them.
    • How to Respect Parental Authority Without Losing Your Voice – Speaking up when it matters without undermining trust.
    • Building Trust with Adult Children Through Respectful Boundaries – How consistent boundary respect builds the access and closeness you want.

When Things Get Complicated

• • • The Art of Biting Your Tongue: When to Speak Up and When to Stay Quiet – A practical framework for navigating disagreements without damaging the relationship.
    • When Your Parenting Style Clashes with Your Adult Child’s Approach – How to handle generational differences in parenting philosophy with grace.

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About Neil Taft

Neil Taft has spent 40+ years helping grandparents navigate the most complex family dynamics – from boundary-setting and estrangement to legal rights and long-distance connection. He is the author of four books on grandparenting, including Good to Great Grandparenting (endorsed by Jack Canfield), and advises grandparents across all 50 states through Caring Grandparents.

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