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400+ Expert Guides by Neil Taft

Explore 400+ expert articles on modern grandparenting written by Neil Taft, author of four books on family relationships and grandparent rights. Whether you’re navigating boundaries with adult children, staying connected across distances, raising grandchildren full-time, or managing family conflict, these practical guides provide proven strategies based on 40+ years of experience.

Topics covered: Boundaries and respect, long-distance connection strategies, custodial grandparenting, legal rights, emotional wellness, financial wisdom, modern parenting trends, special needs support, and building lasting meaningful relationships.

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Respecting Parenting Styles

Learn how to support your adult children’s parenting choices while maintaining meaningful relationships with your grandchildren. These articles help you navigate boundaries, avoid conflicts, and position yourself as a trusted ally – not a critic.

Featured Articles:

  • How to Respect Parental Authority Without Losing Your Voice
  • When Your Parenting Style Clashes with Your Adult Child’s Approach
  • The Art of Biting Your Tongue: When to Speak Up and When to Stay Quiet
  • Building Trust with Adult Children Through Respectful Boundaries

Long-Distance Grandparenting

Strategies for staying connected when miles separate you from your grandchildren. From video calls to care packages, these articles provide creative ways to maintain strong bonds across any distance.

Featured Articles:

  • 25 Creative Ways to Connect with Long-Distance Grandchildren
  • Making Video Calls Meaningful: Beyond “How’s School?”
  • The Ultimate Long-Distance Grandparent Care Package Guide
  • How to Be Present When You Can’t Be There Physically

Custodial Grandparenting

Practical advice for grandparents raising grandchildren full-time. From navigating school systems to managing behavioral challenges, these guides support your second-time-around parenting journey.

Featured Articles:

  • Your Legal Rights as a Custodial Grandparent
  • Managing Behavioral Issues: Trauma-Informed Strategies for Grandparents
  • Navigating School Systems When Raising Grandchildren
  • Self-Care for Custodial Grandparents: You Can’t Pour from an Empty Cup

Grandparent Legal Rights

Understanding your legal rights regarding visitation, custody, and guardianship. These articles explain state laws, court processes, and how to protect your relationship with grandchildren.

Featured Articles:

  • State-by-State Guide to Grandparent Visitation Rights
  • When to Hire a Family Law Attorney: What Grandparents Need to Know
  • Understanding “Best Interest of the Child” in Custody Cases
  • How to Document Your Relationship for Court Proceedings

Financial Wisdom

Teaching money lessons to grandchildren without creating dependency or overstepping boundaries. From savings accounts to college funds, these articles help you navigate financial gifts wisely.

Featured Articles:

  • Should You Pay for Your Grandchild’s College? Pros and Cons
  • Teaching Financial Literacy Through Grandparent-Grandchild Activities
  • Setting Up a 529 Plan: What Grandparents Need to Know
  • How to Give Money Without Undermining Parental Authority

Emotional Wellness

Managing guilt, anxiety, grief, and finding joy in your grandparenting role. These articles address the emotional challenges grandparents face – from estrangement to aging.

Featured Articles:

  • Coping with Grandparent Estrangement: Healing and Moving Forward
  • Managing Guilt When You Can’t See Your Grandchildren
  • The Emotional Toll of Watching Your Adult Child Struggle
  • Finding Joy in Grandparenting When Life Feels Overwhelming

Modern Parenting Trends

Understanding gentle parenting, screen time debates, and generational differences in parenting philosophies. These articles help you adapt to modern family dynamics.

Featured Articles:

  • What is Gentle Parenting? A Grandparent’s Guide
  • Screen Time Wars: How Grandparents Can Support (Not Undermine) Parents
  • Why “We Turned Out Fine” Doesn’t Work Anymore
  • Understanding Attachment Parenting from a Grandparent’s Perspective

Special Needs Grandchildren

Supporting grandchildren with autism, ADHD, learning disabilities, and other special needs. These articles provide practical strategies and emotional support.

Featured Articles:

  • Understanding Your Special Needs Grandchild: A Beginner’s Guide
  • How to Support Parents of Special Needs Children
  • Sensory-Friendly Activities for Grandparents and Grandchildren
  • Advocating for Your Special Needs Grandchild in School Settings

Building Lasting Connections

Proven strategies for creating meaningful bonds with grandchildren at every age – from infants to adults. These articles focus on Neil’s core philosophy: connection over correction.

Featured Articles:

  • The Respectful Connection Framework: 5 Strategies That Work
  • Age-Appropriate Ways to Connect with Grandchildren (Birth to 18+)
  • How to Become the Grandparent Your Grandchildren Confide In
  • Creating Traditions That Last Generations

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Written by Neil Taft

Neil Taft is a grandparenting expert with 40+ years of experience helping families navigate modern challenges. As the author of four books including Good to Great Grandparenting (endorsed by Jack Canfield), Neil provides practical, research-backed strategies for building meaningful connections while respecting boundaries.

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Dive Deeper with Neil’s Books

Want comprehensive guidance beyond individual articles? Explore Neil’s four books covering boundaries, legal rights, meaningful connections, and modern grandparenting challenges.

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Need personalized support? Contact Neil for coaching, speaking engagements, or expert consultation: neiltaft@caringgrandparents.com